Thursday, January 21, 2016

Back to school for the first time.

I have a confession to make! I have a feeling I am going to be one of the uncool school Mums. I am embarrassed to admit how much I have over thought preparing Hannah for Kindy and how over organised I am Scrape that! I don't think what I am is organised because i'm not, I think it is that every aspect has been so over thought and as a result I have gone way past what is necessary. Therefore I think I'm at the point where I'm at geeky uncool status. It's a pretty straight forward list of things she needs for the year.

  • Hat
  • Water bottle
  • Lunch box
  • Sheet (which they specified should be a towel with elastic attached across each corner) plus drawstring bag to put it in... small pillow optional
  • Spare change of clothes
  • and a bag to put it all in.

I have worked in daycare for over 6 years so I have seen my fair share of what works and what doesn't and how difficult it is when things aren't labelled. Cause lets face it 20 or so kids with 20 water bottles it is way too much for one person to be able to remember which belongs to who. But being on the other side... the parent side, it's just so different. There is a huge variety of options, styles, brands and functionalities. How do you work out which way to go for each and every thing?

I think my problem is that I don't cope great with change (something I learned about myself over the years) and my baby going off the Kindy, her first time out of my care for any longer then a few hours is a HUGE change! And it is very confronting! That this stage is coming to an end. The stage where you have your babies at home. That wonderful fulfilling, warm, fuzzy, sometimes-pull-your-hair-out stage where it's just us hanging out, being together. And now entering the next part of the rest of their life. Where they are that one more step towards independence, that one step closer to being out in the big wide world. And that moment where you feel like you wasted that 4 years, that you didn't make the most of it and that i'm not really ready to let that go. I know I can't control time and I think that is why I am over doing it all because I need to feel that sense of control over some part of this transition. That, and that I want this new experience for Hannah to be perfect and everything that she has hoped it would be.

So, let me confess that I brought her a $40 lunch box :-/ and thinking about it now I feel so ridiculous! And I am so so embarrassed to admit it! But to justify that, it was my one splurge out of everything we needed. Mostly everything else was pretty cheap. And it is pretty awesome! The Kindy requested not insulated, so I did a bunch of research and found that the Yumbox Original was really popular. And for good reason. The inner tray is removable and dishwasher safe and when the lid closes it actually has inbuilt seals that stop food from mixing and spilling preventing soggy sandwiches and the risk of losing lids and containers and less time opening things means more time for eating her lunch because she is a very slow eater. That... and it's pink and has pretty pictures and I know she will love it. 

Because of its small compartments It doesn't fit a whole sandwich in it's original state so that led me to look into all things Bento and how cute they can look if you have a couple of sandwich cutters, or even try some other great alternatives to sandwiches. There are a lot of options out there. 

So with the most embarrassing item on the list over and done with I will briefly touch on the other items I have lined up...

I got a cheap/not so cheap water bottle from the reject shop, Hannah chose a frozen straw type water bottle which was $7. It was a good choice cause it seems to hold a fair amount of water which is great. Then because she loved it so much she broke it a week out from Kindy starting so I went and bought another one. Now I have some spare parts up my sleeve.

Hannah picked out a cute little girls flower backpack from Big W for $15 in a great size to fit everything but isn't too big for her to carry. The front pocket seems to be just the right size for her lunchbox and it has a wet clothes section and a regular section and a pocket for her water bottle. 

I did think about getting her a personalised backpack, I wasn't going to mention it but I am bringing it up for the exact reason why I decided not to. I think it is an important message to share. Having your child's name visible on their backpack opens them up to stranger danger. A stranger can see what the child's name is and call out or approach them and spin whatever story they may need to coax them into their car. I believe the same rules should apply to their hats. No largely printed names on the front or outside of the hat. I opted for the Stuck On You label pack which included iron on labels and a bag tag which I will position to sit between the bag and Hannah's back when being worn and I also applied a label inside the bag for in case the tag is lost.

An amazingly talented friend Peta from A.E Handmade knocked up the required towel with elastic sheet for me because I am the world's worst sewer and I grabbed a cot flat sheet and a little pillow we already had at home that has a handle. Perfectly suited for the job. To throw it all in- my overthinking brain kicked in and I ordered a personalised drawstring bag from Harvey Norman.

And now I am getting to work labelling everything with the Stuck On you Labels I mentioned above. We also went and had a haircut and I have even given thought to the up and coming Head Lice situation which is inevitable. When I was at school we used to mix lavender oil and water in a spray bottle and apply it each morning which seemed to help keep them at bay. I don't know if it works but I am going to give it a try. Hannah and I both have long hair so prevention is definitely a better option for us than a cure.

Now I think all that is left to do is pre make some lunchbox fillers for the freezer.

Please don't pick on me!


  1. Wow such a great article i even love how the Yumbox Original Lunch Box is Dishwasher safe and leakproof! Way to go Yumbox

    1. Hi Simon, thanks for taking the time to comment! We found the Yumbox to be great throughout the year and it still looks almost brand new. Very durable.